Anonymous asked:

I don't know where else to turn. I feel worthless and that my life is pointless and that all I do is disappoint God. I haven't prayed in a while because I feel like theres a brick wall between us. I feel like there is nothing special about me and I try to reach out sometimes but I can't. I'm desperate and I'm lonely and I have unshakable anxiety and I don't like who I am and I need help. Please answer because I'm on my last straw lately and I don't see things getting better

godlydatingandfeelings answered:

Hey Darlin’

You’re so precious, just the way you are, you may feel as if you’re not special, But oh darlin, doesn’t mean you’re not special. You’re so special. Not because of what I say, but because of what God says. 

Jeremiah 31:3 The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love

This everlasting love is why you’re special, it’s why you have not been alone even though you have felt lonely. This love is capable of shaking and breaking that anxiety. It brings peace in the storm of worry. 

1 John 4:19 We love because he first loved us. 

Hun, receive the truth that you’re loved by God. It’s a gift. It doesn’t depend on how you feel, nor on the brick between Him and you, it depends on you just existing! This truth and gift of love is what helps us to love ourselves. Because as humans we arn’t capable of loving ourselves nor the way we ought to love. You may be on your last straw, but God is never on His last straw on you. He wants you home. Home is His arms. Come to Him as you are. All broken and desperate. He will cradle you, listen to you, mend you, heal you, and mold you to who He is. And that is allowing you to see you’re full of worth, your life has purpose - you’re here for a reason, your steps are guided, nothing in your life is an accident. He’ll let you see that His love is enough, it will carry you through everything. Any anxiety, any gloomy, and even sunny day

I’m here for you, you’re not alone 

God loves you ♥


Anonymous asked:

hey I've recently been doing more research on the purpose of mariage. Ive always been a romantic and desired affection and love but i realize these are selfish pursuits and any relationship i want to have should primarily glorify God. Now i feel bad for desireing to have butterflies in my stomach and wanting all the little cute things you see in movies. how should i actually view relationships since the bible doesnt recongnize "dating"

godlydatingandfeelings answered:

Hey love,

You can definitely desire having butterflies, and wanting all the cute things in movies in the context of it happening with the right person. Not just any attractive person that comes your way.

God is a God of romance, He woos us everyday with His kindness, patience, listening ears, compassion, and love. It’s the greatest love affair known to man. He wouldn’t want romance to not be present in your future. He wants to give you the right person that you can be this way with.

You keep glorifying God at this time and He will add to you the butterflies and cute things. 

Seeking it for yourself rather than waiting on what He says is the selfish pursuit. 

This is so awesome that you’ve been looking into more what He says about marriage. Simply awesome! ♥ 

It’s never good to wait on anyone
that’s putting your life on pause
your life suddenly, yet unintentionally
becomes revolved around them

it’s never good to impress others
with what you’re not whether it be by spoken
words or actions

you’re so worthy doing these undermines
your eternal value
let go of them, because who you are is more than good enough
you are because He is
it’s a shame to accept less than what
you deserve for the sake of a mere person

Anonymous asked:

This isn't really about dating but I need help. What do you do when you can't sleep at night because you're so worried and scared all the time? I've been struggling with fear for years and I can't take it anymore. Please help

godlydatingandfeelings answered:

1 John 4:18- The is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

Believe in your heart, trust with all your strength, have hope that this perfect love is capable of casting out your fears. Perfect love is capable of casting it all away. With this love, fear does not exist. This love doesn’t depend on us. All you have to do is receive this truth, rely on it, as our lives depends on it. Keep praying about it. And rest that it has been done 

I’ll be praying for you Love